Thursday Spotlight: Anita Philmar

Spring is the Time to Spice It Up
Coming up with better ways to keep the magic alive in a relationship is hard work. Some times we don’t have the energy or the time to deal with keeping the romance going.
Hey, we have a job, kids, family, and responsibilities. You’re working as hard as you can to just get through the day, much less worry about an exciting sex life. 
I couldn’t agree more, but it doesn’t have to be a big deal.  Little changes in your routine can reap rewards.  Remembering to kiss your lover the moment you see them is a small task and one that shows you care.
My husband is so good at this. He always remembers. It is one of the things that I love about him. Me, if I’m in a hurry, I’m out the door and in the car before I even remember to say good-bye. He makes me slow down and taste the wonders of his lips.
Other things you could do might be as simple as making the coffee every morning, a wink to show you find them sexy, a touch on your lover’s back when they’re struggling to do something.  Small touches.
I had an older co-worker that always referred to his wife as his girlfriend. What a wonderful way to think of your spouse–my boyfriend, my lover, the sexy guy I sleep with, etc.
Adding spicing is just taking a moment to show that you care.
Have a fun filled day, full of love, joy and sex.
Anita Philmar

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