Okay, for those of you who read the blog post on the Goddess Fish Party Blog about the side of me that’s an angel, and one want to see the side of me that conjures up erotic romances so hot they can melt you computer screen here’s a little insight into the sexy side of me…
It’s taken me years to release that inner part of me that can look someone in the face and say, “I love sex”, without having my face flame with embarrassment. Let’s face it, ladies, our sexuality was suppressed for far too long by society stigmatism. Since I’ve been writing, I’ve met some very talented and inspirational women who’ve unknowingly helped me grow into the sexy diva I am know.
As women, what makes us feel sexy? ( let me interject here that I am in no way bashing men. I’m only speaking from a woman’s POV) I think sexiness is a personal road we all have to travel. I’m not sure there’s necessarily an end. Some of us get so far and pull over when we comfortable where we are, and others are able to venture farther to realms we never thought we’d go before. I believe one of the single most important things that helps us on this journey is having a supportive and respectful partner. I’m sorry, but the old “I want a lady on the street but a freak in the bed” idea really stunts our growth and self esteem. At least for me. I’m not saying you can’t be tasteful and modest in public and still get your groove on behind closed doors, you absolutely can. It’s all about finding that middle ground and doing things that make you feel sexy all the time.
So what have I done to make myself feel sexier? Well there’s the typical things like wearing sexy underwear and bras, heady perfume, etc. But let’s get into the bold here. Have you ever cooked Thanksgiving dinner in the nude? My husband still brags about that to his buddies! Ladies, they say men are visual during sex and we’re more emotional, but have you ever ventured to watch in the mirror? It brings a whole new sense of power and freedom. But you don’t have to get bold and have sex in a public bathroom or on an airplane to feel sexy. Sometimes just being more aware of yourself can make you feel like a goddess all the time. Put a little more wiggle in your walk. Unbutton that blouse one more notch. Dive into that romance book you’ve got stashed in your drawer then attack your partner with a feral hunger that leaves him (or her) breathless.
Deep inside, we’re all sexy divas. But it’s up to you to
Et her out.